Yesterday after hb pick me up from my work place, we head straight home which is unusual. In the car, Khairi requested to go playground. Since I seldom brought him to the playground, this time I relented. Dapat main sekejap pon jadi. At 1st susah nak ajak dia balik and I have to call hb who is at home doing some house chores to talk to Khairi. After talking to papa, Khairi was excited and getting ready to go home. I asked him "wat papa say to u, abg?" He replied "papa say papa buy McDonald". No wonder he was smiling from ear to ear. So we had McD delivery for dinner.
Then at 8pm, hb decided to take a shower as he felt berlengas. Then tak semena-mena, this little gendut cry out for his papa and when there's no reply, he decided to throw his tantrums. I told him "papa tgh mandilah, abg". He keep shouting "I want my papa". Try to coax him but it became worse and he shout at the heart of his lungs "I WANT MY PAPA!!!". I was shocked at his reaction as he neva shout at me like that before. Apalagi mama dia punya tochang pon ternaik ar.. Dgn beliakkan mata I besar, I said to him in a stern way "Muhammad Khairi Danial, u dnt be rude to mama ok. Mama tak ajar Khairi mcm gitu tau. Nanti Allah marah kalau Khairi kurang ajar kat mama. Kalau Khairi notty2, mama tak nak fren Khairi lagi!" After saying that, I wake off to the nearby sofa. Notice that I meant what I said, he slowly came over to where I sit, dgn muka sedih he hugged me and say "Sori mama. Abg say sori mama.Mama fren abg lah. Abg takde fren tau.Sori mama." Seeing how pathetic his face is, I pon hugged him. Not long after, hb came out from the shower and ask wat's the commotion about. I told him the whole story and he laughed at his son and said "Good.Notty lagi ar. Nanti mama tak fren abg." Jahatkan my hb ni.
Den when we went to bed, Khairi decided to play his PSP eventhough the clock already shows 11pm. Usually his bedtime is at 10pm the latest but since I got something to do and since he doesnt want to sleep with hb, so the time was dragged to 11pm. When I lie down next to him, he told me to play the PSP as he dnt know how to play certain stage of the game. Den bila tgh shiok2 main PSP, the battery went alkaput on us. Khairi decided to throw tantrum again..He said I purposely off the game which I told him I didnt and show him whether can ON or not the game. Dah tunjuk pon, he still not happy and shout to me again. I just terbeliakkan mata den turn over the other side of the bed. Khairi den cry terisak-isak behind my back. Kesian pulak I dgr so I decide to turn to him. He hugged me and say "Sori mama.Mama tak moh marah abg ok. Love you mama." I den slow talk with him that wat he did is totally wrong. While I was explaining to him, at certain point he will ask "why cannot do like that?" so I have to tell him wat is rite and wat is wrong. Even though he's only 3yrs plus and dlm peringkat masih tak tau apa2 but to me, I mesti terapkan kat Khairi apa yg baik dan tak baik for him. Kata org, melentur buluh biar dari rebung nya. This week I noticed that he's a bit sensitive. Sikit2 merajuk..sikit2 meradang...Haizzzz...Bole stress layan karenah si gendut ni and 1 more thing I notice these 2 nites while he was sleeping soundly suddenly there's a "teething" sound from him as though he's eating something. So last nite when i heard that, I slap lightly on his cheek and he instantly stopped doing that. So far tak pernah I dgr dia main gigi time tdo only these 2 days and it worries me badly. Hb pon terperanjat bila dgr Khairi main gigi mlm2 and it's damn loud tau. Any solution for this?Is it normal?