Today went thru 1 of my cuzzin's multiply. In her photo album, there's 1 pic to me she looked fat. So I reply to her pic "you got to lose those extra kilos lah gal". Well, she got offended by my remarks. Even when I said "I'm sorry you feel offended" , she start to say sarcastic words to me. She said I should be tactful to the ppl around me lah. She said "if you got nothing to say, den DNT say"and this outburst comes from her mom too. Hhmm...tactful eh? She even said nasib baik you and I are family den I replied " ya, family..hehehe". Den she wrote " very unfortunately". To me lah kan if a person wrote that remarks, u mesti look at yourself and tink "eh yelah, i tink i dah gemuk ar, should lose the weights" rather than take it in your own stride. Ya u said u love with how you weigh but being a "concern" cuzzin I'm advising you to take care of your health when you're young. If u're trying to be sarcastic by telling me to lose weight, let me tell you gal, I'm a mother of 3, wat do u expect? Unlike you..duhhh. If this outburst comes from your mom, I can only say ONE thing , "LIKE MOTHER, LIKE DOTTER!!!". Pelik lah org mcm gini. Sepatutnya kita usaha bila seseorang tegur kita bukannya org tu nak mengutuk u ke apa....She even blocked me from her contact list. Well, it's her multiply she got her rights to do that and I dnt mind at all. All my other cuzzins know who I am, being a straight-forward. At least I tak hyprocrite, tak praise seseorang tu sampai ke langit behind his/her back. Tactful? Hhmmm..let me tink about it lah gal eh.
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WEBMISTRESS ;
Mashita
The August Family
Me: 20 August 1978
Hubby (Suhaimi): 5 August 1972
Son (Muhd Khairi Danial): 30 August 2004
Anniversary: 14 September 2003
Her family call her "Ayang" and her frenz call her "Mas"
The youngest and the only gal of 4 siblings.
Married to her ex-colleague; Suhaimi and had a son; Muhd Khairi Danial.
Loves her family very much especially the 2 irritating men in her life.
